My wife and I love each other, but one thing we didn’t know was how strong the connection would be after we conquered carpools, endless nights of sports, and last minute science projects and it was just her and I.
We have moved on from dance schedules to sunset strolls, traded homework deadlines for candlelit dinners, and puke clean up to movie nights.
Rediscovering your relationship might be simple, or it will feel like learning a new language. Fear not! Here are some tips to rekindle romance and turn your empty nest into a love nest:
- Real date nights need to come back. Forget the autopilot “dinner-and-errands” routine! Rekindle romance with activities that remind you why you fell for each other. Whether it’s ballroom lessons, pottery painting, or exploring a new restaurant you have your sites on. These nights aren’t for errands, but for rediscovering the joy of simply being present, together.
- Communication. Take the time for meaningful conversations, beyond schedules and laundry. Share your dreams, fears, and aspirations. Listen and rediscover the joy of simply connecting with your partner and make it priority and not for sending memes.
- Adventure awaits! Rekindle the fire of new experiences. Plan a weekend getaway to that charming coastal town you always talked about, or use your Saturday morning to embark on a hiking adventure. New experiences create shared memories and reignite the thrill of exploring together.
- Less clutter, more connection. What once held sentimental value might now just be the echo of closed chapters. Instead of clinging to outdated possessions, view this as an opportunity to rediscover each other in the process. Work side-by-side to sift through memories and make space for new furniture or as you work towards becoming a minimalist.
- Remember, romance isn’t just dinner and roses. Small gestures speak volumes. Leave little love notes hidden throughout the day. Tuck one in their car, stick one on the bathroom mirror, or leave one nestled in their favorite book. These unexpected surprises act as tiny love bombs, reminding them of your affection.
- Make each other a priority. Schedule “couple time” on your calendars, just like you used to schedule doctor’s appointments and basketball games. Treat it as sacred and ensure neither work nor other commitments intrude. Remember, nurturing your relationship is an investment in your long-term happiness, together.
This empty nest isn’t the end, it’s a beautiful new chapter. Remember, the key is to be intentional, creative, and patient. This is an opportunity to rewrite your love story, and the possibilities are endless.
